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Gaslighting & Triangulation

Why they work so well together. Gaslighting bends your reality; triangulation recruits an outside voice to endorse it. One scrambles your compass; the other confiscates your map.

Five-panel comic: Narcy says 'I’ll be right back'; Main Supply cleans—vacuuming, wiping, mopping; later he sits in a now-clean living room; caption reads 'She knew he’d clean the house while she was gone.'
With one early morning phone call, her plan changed. Had she done this before? Of course she had.

What is NarcyNarc?

NarcyNarc is more than a character — she’s a caricature of the modern narcissist. Through her over-the-top stories, we make the complex world of narcissistic traits easier to understand. Our site blends humor with hard truths, offering:

  • A Glossary of Narcissistic Terms with clear definitions
  • Comics and scenarios that show manipulation in action
  • Worksheets and checklists to help you set boundaries and protect your peace

The goal? To turn invisible manipulation into something visible, shareable, and easier to spot — so you can laugh, learn, and live free of toxic control.

Latest Comics

Narcy carries a birthday cake at a lively backyard party—kids, balloons, clown, bounce house, pony rides, and dogs—under a HAPPY BIRTHDAY banner.

Projection

Projection isn’t clarity — it’s cover. She offloads her mess onto you,then scolds you for “wearing it.” Pause and ask: what just happened? Name it. Don’t own it.
Crowd shouts “Don’t be a Narcy!” (slang for narcissistic behavior) while Narcy smugly thinks, “See? NarcyNarc.com is working.

What and Who is Narcy?

This page re-introduces Narcy — a satirical guide who exaggerates narcissistic traits so we can spot red flags with humor and clarity.
Narcy speaks while the target shifts from receiver to interpreter

From Receiver to Interpreter

This page shows how shifting from Receiver to Interpreter keeps you calm, grounded, and free from manufactured emergencies.
Narcy enters Dr. Phil’s stage while the audience cheers

Dr. Phil Welcomes Narcy

Narcy thinks it's her big break! See Narcy like never before as Dr. Phil unravels the mystery!
It wasn’t nature or nurture. It was credit cards and contradictions.

Chronological (Dis)Order – Narcy’s Origin Story

From Main Street to Mainframe — how narcissism got commercialized, monetized, and glamorized. Narcy was just the first to notice.
Narcy explains that everyone has narcissistic traits

But Everyone Has Narcissistic Traits

Narcy says “everyone’s a little narcissistic,” but is that truth or deflection? This comic breaks it down with clarity, humor, and insight into what separates traits from toxic patterns.

What is a Narcy?

A “Narcy” is any person who thrives on control, ego stroking, and drama. While NarcyNarc the character is fictional, the traits she embodies are painfully real. She’s a neighbor, coworker, friend, relative, or partner who twists reality to keep you off balance, protect their fragile ego and serve their own purpose.

Narcy showing off her painted living room to neighbors

This Old House – Narcy Villa Style

Narcy announces a living room paint day… then skips prep, deflects help, and vanishes shopping. Meanwhile, Main Supply preps and finishes it — only for Narcy to claim credit and nitpick the flaws. A hilarious glimpse into sabotage and blame-shifting, with a fun before-and-after reveal.
Narcy at the airport fishing for sympathy after her flight cancellation

The Proof Trap

The harder you try to prove your innocence, the deeper you feel trapped. It’s not failure — it’s her design. Learn why proving is a performance… and how to exit her stage for good.